Post reblogged from I don't want to see or be seen by straight people. with 17 notes
okay seriously.. if you are Pansexual you are not gay! that just means you like a person because of there personality,looks.. etc.. and not caring if they are a female,male,trans,drag whatever…
I don’t think you should call that being “gay” because it just means you aren’t shallow. and that you…
But it doesn’t mean that if you’re not a pansexual you’re “not nice”, pansexuality is after all a sexual attraction, good for people who can be attracted to everyone, but some people are born with an attraction for only guys or only girls, and it’s perfectly fine, because that’s how people are BORN.
I myself never found me attracted to girls, so I came to the conclusion that I’m straight [if that’s how you write it :P], I envy people who have the freedom to choose from all kinds of people, but it’s not something that I’m in no control of or chose, just like being gay or bi, you don’t choose to be straight, you’re born like that
Hope you get me
Oh No! I was afraid that’s what people would think I’m trying to say lol. there is nothing wrong with being straight! and of course that doesn’t mean if you’re a nice person or not.
it just seems that most of the people who call themselves “pansexual” act as if it’s a sexual orientation when it’s not any different from being anything else. even if they are capable of being attracted to anyone they still have a gender they prefer and a “type” they prefer. so they should just see what they like more and go by that. ><
Oh. I didn’t realize I had a gender and a type that I preferred.
Thanks for letting me know!
well if you find yourself going out with guys more (just giving a random example)and most of those guys have something in common for example: style or a personality trait.
then I think it’s pretty obvious what kind of people you go for.
and I feel like calling it “pansexual” is a term most people use so they can hide behind what they really are.
oh, darling. you are so sorely misinformed.
Also it’s this mindset that groups me into being “gay” because I’m a feminine male and have a boyfriend. This is UNTRUE about me. In reality, I absolutely adore women and have dated/would date women in the future. I literally have no sexual preference.
If you’re going to tell me that my pansexuality is a false identity, I am going to laugh and let my pansexual followers laugh with me.
I am bi. I am NOT pan because I do have types and preferences. Bears, for instance, I am not attracted to. If he says he is pan, then he is. STOP PATROLLING PEOPLES’ FUCKING IDENTITIES.